Rear Cabin Etiquette for Passengers and Their Guests
The unwritten conventions of the rear compartment, explained for hosts, guests and anyone unsure.
Where people sit, and why it is not arbitrary
The most comfortable seat in a chauffeur car is behind the front passenger, because the seat in front of it can be moved fully forward and because it is furthest from traffic when the car sets down at a kerb. By convention that seat goes to the most senior passenger or to the guest being hosted. It is a small courtesy that people notice.
When two people travel and one is hosting, the host generally takes the seat behind the driver and gives the guest the better side. When three travel, the middle position falls to whoever is going the shortest distance. None of this is a rule anyone will enforce, but knowing it removes a moment of hesitation at the kerb.
Doors, luggage and letting the chauffeur work
Chauffeurs open doors and handle luggage as part of the job. Passengers who reach for their own case or open their own door are being polite, but it often creates an awkward negotiation on a busy pavement. The smoother approach is to let the chauffeur do it and simply say thank you.
There are exceptions worth knowing. On the traffic side of a busy road, wait for the chauffeur rather than opening a door into a cycle lane. And if you are in a hurry, saying so lets the chauffeur adjust rather than performing the full routine while you fret.
- Let the chauffeur open the door on the traffic side
- Give the best seat to the guest or the senior passenger
- Say if you are in a hurry rather than rushing the routine
- Take anything you need with you at each stop
Conversation, and how to set the tone
Chauffeurs read passengers well, but they are not telepathic. If you want silence, say so at the start; it will be received as useful information rather than rudeness. If you would like conversation, ask a question and it will follow. Either is normal and neither needs justification.
When hosting a guest, setting the tone is the host's job. A brief word to the chauffeur at the start, such as asking for a quiet journey or mentioning that you will be talking business, saves everyone from guessing for the first ten minutes. Guests take their cue from the host, so the first thirty seconds set the tone for the journey.
Phones, calls and third parties in the cabin
Taking a call in a shared cabin follows the same conventions as a train quiet coach with an audience of one or two. Keep it brief, keep names and figures vague if the material is sensitive, and use a headset rather than a speakerphone where possible. If a guest is present, a short apology before taking a call goes a long way.
It is also worth remembering that the chauffeur hears everything. Professional practice treats it as private, but if a conversation is genuinely confidential it is reasonable to say so, and it is equally reasonable to leave the detail for the destination. Sensitive material is better kept for a room with a door than a cabin with an audience.
Looking after the cabin, and the tipping question
Ordinary care is all that is asked: take rubbish with you, mention a spill rather than hiding it, and keep muddy boots or wet equipment out of the passenger compartment unless it has been prepared for. Any genuine accident is far better mentioned than discovered later.
Tipping is discretionary in the UK and never expected. Some passengers tip after a long day or where a chauffeur has gone out of their way; many do not, and no chauffeur will treat you differently for it. A specific note of thanks passed back to the company is often valued more than money.
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Frequently asked questions
Which seat should I take in the back?
Behind the front passenger is generally the most comfortable, because the seat in front can be moved forward and it is furthest from traffic at the kerb. By convention it goes to the guest or the most senior passenger, though nobody will mind if you sit elsewhere.
Should I tip the chauffeur?
It is entirely discretionary and never expected. Some passengers tip after a long day or an unusually helpful journey and many do not. Feedback passed back to the company about a chauffeur who did well is often valued just as much.
Is it rude to ask for silence?
Not at all, and it is a very common request. Chauffeurs would far rather know at the start than guess. The same applies to the radio, temperature and lighting, all of which are easier to set once than to correct repeatedly during the journey.